There are different phases in life some of them could be extreme happy with whatever they have in life and some must be able to take any sorrow. However what one should remember is neither happiness or sadness is temporary nor every dark place you have gone could be the end of your journey. Therefore it can be named as a training given by life for a set of people who needs to have some bad experiences as those can bring in amazing life lessons. Moreover I personally believe that every failed step is the start for something new and which shall also be a new chapter in their lives. When the school phase is over, another set have to be enrolled to life which means a girl who studied higher level education and so on. In the race called life, there are so many problems as to such cases and one should be able to have the confidence to face the change.
In the phase of love, one should phone to find the right partner for your life because if there is minor fault or a doubt such shall be brought up and discussed in the family forever and there will not ever be any kind of the opposite way. This is the reason why there are many marriage counselling lectures for interested parties as the divorce rate is very high today. People take bad permanent ideas even in a case of a minor argument but in many books, articles and magazines there is a saying that giving up shall not be the answer for any sort of problem. Therefore such people shall be appreciated and respected.
There are times that people even go for depression counselling as those are important lectures for life. Not everyone can teach them for another. Therefore, the importance of being hard working can result so much of happiness to you. One should be able to love you and keep things simple with those. One should and must always remember that ending up your life is not the answer for the happy lifetime as people have more serious issues than these mentioned above. Therefore when dealing with the opinions. Opinions shall be taken from the mind and not from their hearts. No matter what will happen in the court room and life, the goal is to be happy and successful. What others say, measure is simply irrelevant and therefore one definitely has to do what he wants to do.